Miss Shona (missniceness) wrote in nice_people,
Miss Shona

Love & Niceness

Does anyone ever feel as if their 'niceness' sort of shoots them down in the dating game. I myself find myself going on second dates with men who are pretty much losers...mostly because I don't want to hurt their feelings. Also I hold my tongue a bit too often even when I'm in a long term relationship.

So instead of arguing, I always just kind of kill things immediately...giving the impression that I'm heartless or something.

Or maybe I'm just a wuss.
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I find the assholes who take advantage of me.
No, you just know what you know and do what you do!! However, a little healthy arguement doesn't hurt every now and then!
I think it does. whats more if a girl likes me but I don't like her I wont do anything about it. In my drama class there was this horrible mean girl who hung all over me and I never let her know I hated it.I have a real problem saying no.